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Either way, I just wanted to thank you for “putting yourself out there”. Obviously, we are going to find out if you have children, and I am not at all saying… In just 40 minutes reading your site made me feel I wasnt soo alone, I mean there are tons of “single parent” things online…but none nearly as entertaining and relate-able as yours! I’ll tell you the same thing I tell every man (always men by the way) who leaves comments like this on my site: I agree with you – children need fathers but when the father is absent by his own fruition that makes it quite difficult for us, now doesn’t it? I’m 26 and dating a 32 yr old mother of a 6 yr old. We are on are 4th date this week and this information has helped a lot. I should know I was married to one – one who beat and strangled me in front of our kids.
I’m sure that others will draw the positives from your life and not concentrate on the negatives of their life. Thank you for sharing your stories and giving a single mom something to smile about! Rather than stay in a marriage with a non-father, a man unable to actually be a father, it is – in my opinion- better for children to be raised solo by a loving mother. He shares the same views as the insightful ‘Ben’, and I know first hand how a child needs their father – but not when it ruins the child’s life by a parent’s own lack of sense, father or mother – in my case it was my husband. Thank you for your openness on this – I have tried to explain this concept to a friend (who is married to a helping husband) and I’m not quite sure she understood what I was saying.
I am a single male with no children, never married so in all honesty I know very little about children or single motherhood.
It would be so different to come to the title that says… Explaining to us parts of your life and along the way sharing with us that you have a son and maybe nothing at all about your relationship status. Those people that get married, have children, and STICK TOGETHER, are entitled to all the respect and prestige. Single parents, while I don't believe they should be ashamed of themselves, are deserving of less respect and prestige as married couples with children. Nor will you have a house or any land to pass down to your child. What about Widows, are their children not going to amount to anything? At least now, when I feel lonely it’s because I’m on my own, not because I’m with my unavailable partner. PS-Now I can buy my favorite juice AND actually drink some of it….. I do not feel so desperate to meet another partner as I did the first time around and that is a huge relief.
I feel that your blog is a way of saying: "hey, look at me! " Now, I don't want to be cruel, but you should know that your child will have less options than a lot of others. I'm not sure you are aware of the gravity of your situation. What…if a child has no Dad ,they can’t have a great life? My ex drank a large carton of juice at a sitting, and never did any shopping let alone contributing finacncially, so I gave up buying it. The hardest thing about being a single parent is feeling lonely and having low or what felt like no self-esteem.
Love your honesty & agree with everything I’ve read so far. Can you send me an email with your contact information if you are interested.thanks Sherri Reply Thanks for leaving a comment on my new site and putting me on your blog roll – yay – you’re one of the first! Put more videos of yourself up, if you want to attract men. Imagine if you had come to someone’s blog that said…“”HEY………I AM IN-DEBT DEBBIE!!!! I hope something special comes of it for you, above and beyond its daily normalcy, that is! I have two great daughters, 10 months apart and my oldest just turned 3.
Nice to read the thoughts of a single mom that are honest, but don’t dwell on the “why me??? Many times, divorce & single parenting is the most positive experience we and our children can go through. Similar situation…I knew I was leaving when I was 12 weeks pregnant. It’s so nice to be able to connect with smart moms like yourself, who are on the same crazy, wonderful trip called single parenthood. Reply Good people deserve great things……you seem to be deserving. ””I do not at all mean to suggest that being in debt is like having children…no of course not! I left the ex when my youngest was only 3 weeks old. ”Over 2 years later, I’m now realizing that it was the best thing I could have done…for all of us.
It’s very nice to see a women that “survived” a less than perfect relationship and is willing to share the details of her life as she moves on. but what I am saying is that this is a personal aspect of your life that unfairly stresses responsibility when people really would just like to know your name. I have no regrets and for the first time I’m completely comfortable in my own skin! Thank you for being a strong voice for all of us single parents out there. Reply I have to say in the middle of a bad economy…tons of layoffs…being a single parent which is never easy.even tougher now.
You serve as an inspiration for some and an enigma for others. I think this may turn more men off then it attracts. I am up late because I am trying to find additional income outlets.one can do but soo much online activities…and then I start looking up single mom outlets…and I stumbled on your site and have been wrapped in it for atleast 40 minutes…and most things give me instant ADD so this is a record. Reply Wow – 1st to somewhere above comment from ‘Ben Dover’ – well it is obvious what a narrow minded, judgmental person it takes to write such crap.
She is quite angry and has a lot of rage and is blaming you for hurting feminism.
I think a good shrink will help her rage, surely you can't be to blame for all her problems !
Im sorry, I shouldn't be scaring you with all this emotion! It is amazing the strength single parents have within them.
Never stop inspiring and spreading hope, as that is exactly what you are doing on your blog. 🙂I would do a fancy trackback to this but honestly – I have yet to be able to do a proper one of those yet.
That makes you a good example and we can’t have enough of those these days. The only word I would put in is that it seems like advertising yourself as a single mother is much more demanding as a statement than merely asserting your name and from there on talking or sharing accordingly. And I’d also like to invite you to spend one hour locked up in a room with my son’s father, that may change your mind. I realised I had a choice – I either let the kids walk the same path as their dad – he didn’t think he has a problem with his violence – towards me or the kids, or I could RESCUE my kids from a life of destruction and HURT. I have been on my own for 9 months now, and to be honest there has not been that much difference apart from feeling more in control of my life and doing a lot less laundry!! Had my first two children during my mid 20's and became a single mum in my early thirties.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating